Today marks Consuelo and my 13th wedding anniversary. Back in South Dakota, we were able to return to the backyard flower garden that hosted our wedding reception and enjoy an anniversary breakfast served by our kids.
It was wonderful.
The kids, with much help from grandma, laid out a fantastic little garden retreat; a small table and two chairs, the fine china, our favorite music playing (Andrew Peterson, Gungor, U2, Sandra McCracken to name a few) and a fun little meal of homemade apple muffins, a blueberry sauce to die for, and . . . bacon. Mmmm. The gateway meat!
Consuelo began crafting this little garden back in high school and she, and now we, have worked at caring for it and cultivating it ever since. It has seen two weddings and one (our) wedding reception and is a little sanctuary of peace and a place to work out life’s stress. In our absence, Consuelo’s mom has done wonders to keep it up and it looks great even if the hedges need their yearly trim.
But thirteen years! Thirteen wonderful years. Marriage has been the joyous dance of friendship and faith, personality and passion, love and loyalty all wound around the rhythms of joy and pain and life. I could never have imagined marrying so well, having such an amazing friend and partner in life. My sights were set far too low, my hopes dim and dreary compared to the reality of life as I know it now. My imaginings as a 22-year-old of what a life a marriage would and could be like were dull and morose compared to what I’ve received.
I guess I feel blessed. Blessed that through the good and the bad, things have turned out far better than I could ever have even imagined. I just didn’t know. I had glimpses of course in the relationship of my own mom and dad, but much of deep love and friendship lies below the surface and out of the public eye.
It’s as it should be.
Here are a few more pictures from our anniversary breakfast.